In
the beginning of academic year, gaining friends can be a little difficult.
Almost everything is kinda weird and you don't know how to start talking with
other people. Gaining friends at this stage is one of the things that kids or
even teens is afraid of. Everybody seems to have their own circle and you have
no idea how to approach them.
But
of course, in the long way, you can start talking to them and well, get along
with them. You can have as much fun as you had from your previous school. At
first, you can ask for their name then eventually ask them to hang out with you
during lunch breaks. There are simple ways you can use in order to gain friends
at the start of academic year.
Here's
how:
1.
Be Kind - Always make sure that you show kindness to whoever you meet at
the beginning of classes. Be nice, that's the main key here. Show them respect
as you have your own background and culture. Remember the saying that if you
don't have anything nice to say, better be quiet. You will just end up hurting
them. You need to agree with them as much as possible.
2.
Breath In, Breath Out - Take a deep breath. I know that you're nervous
and all but always keep in mind that you're going to school. This is not a
place where you will experience torture. You will be able to find kinds your
age and has the same interest as yours. Do not judge them without knowing them.
3.
Be Yourself - No matter what, do not change yourself and try to fit in
with other people's standards of beauty and personality. Remember that you have
your own unique personality just like the others. You don't need to prove
something in order for them to accept you. Do not let other people bully you
because they don't what you eat or the music you listen to. If these people
don't like you at all, fine. Find a bunch of kids/teens who can accept you for
who you are.
4.
Check Your Hygiene - This one is important. Nobody likes to smell BO or
bad breath. Make sure that you take a bath daily, wear cologne, apply deodorant,
brush your teeth. You also need to be presentable so that people would not be
scared.
5.
Make Yourself More Inviting - Always wear a smile. It goes a long way, I
tell you. Do not hide your face in your books or hunch over with your journal
when walking. Chin up and make an eye contact with other students. If you see
someone you know, greet them with Hi or Hello. Or you can smile or nod to them.
When you greet your classmates or colleague, make sure you remember their
names.
Remember,
do not be afraid of people. Always wear a smile and be approachable. Gaining
friends in school should not be difficult because it is a way of interaction.
After all, friends are the one who will help you out next to your family.
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About Guest Author
Elizabeth Terry is a college student who likes to voice out her opinions and an active online essay writer on her personal blog. She's dreaming to travel the world and probably settle down in Paris, France someday. You can also catch her mumbling on her Google+.
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